Saturday, June 18, 2011

So tired, but... survey time!

I had dinner tonight with a friend from middle/high school. I hadn't seen her for quite some time.... it was nice though. I'm so tired though, I went shopping with my mom today too, I bought a nightgown for the labor and birth, and some stuff for my boyfriend's birthday which is next Sunday! I'm going to spoil him this year, because he's been so amazing and working so hard in school, and he deserves it, and I can finally afford to. I want to make it one of his best birthdays ever! It's his last one before we focus on the baby's birthdays instead of our own haha.

This is random but I wanted to fill this out before I went to bed, it's a pregnancy survey, whoo fun.

About Mommy
Name: Nancy
Age: 25
Pre-pregnancy weight: Ehhh...
Current weight: I've gained 20 lbs, let's leave at that :)
How far along are you: 34 weeks (8 months)
Is this your first pregnancy: Yes it is
If not, how long ago was your last: ----
Do you have any other children; names and ages: ----
How many children do you want to have: Three would be nice
Do you like being pregnant: I do!
Have you had any morning sickness: Nope, none
Have you had any mood swings: Not really no, I've been less emotional actually
Have you had a stronger sense of smell: Oh yes! I can smell garlic a mile away... literally
Have you had any swelling in your hands or feet: Nope no swelling!
Have you had any aches or pains: My hips ache a bit, and I've had round ligament pain but that's it!
What do you miss about not being pregnant: Not much... I've quite enjoyed myself, felt better than ever.
What makes up for that: Nothing will compare...
Will you take maternity leave: Yes
Favorite maternity outfit: I love all my maternity outfits haha
Favorite past-time while being pregnant: Baby shopping!
Have you bought any baby things: Yes :>
Are you more excited or nervous: Excited for sure.

About Daddy

Name: Michael
Age: 25 (26 in a week!)
Is he working: Yes
Relationship with you: He's my lover and best friend
How long have you known him: 8 years
Does he have any other children, names and ages: No
How many children does he want to have: I'm not sure, just one for now though haha :)
What is his favorite past-time: Listening to music, and he's gotten into art recently
Has he bought anything for baby: No, he leaves that to me and his mom haha
Will he take time off of work to help you: I'm not sure, maybe a little bit?
What are his strengths as a dad: He's soo smart, he's good with kids, and he's really caring and thoughtful, and fun :)
Is he excited: I think so... I think a bit more nervous though

Pregnancy So Far

When did you find out you were pregnant: January 18th
How did you find out: I had missed more than a couple periods... so my sister bought me a test and well...
Who was with you when you found out: Katy and her friend Tara
What was your reaction: I was pretty shocked and scared...
How did the daddy react: Well I had kind of warned him by saying I hadn't had my period, so he wasn't too surprised, just worried about how we'd handle it.
How did your parents react: They were really excited, pleasantly surprised.
How did his parents react: They were REALLY excited lol
Were you trying to conceive: No
Did you consider an abortion: No
Who is your doctor: Doesn't matter... she's only seeing me for prenatal appointments
How far along were you at your first appointment: 13 weeks
Have you heard the baby's heart beat: Yes :)
Have you had any ultrasounds: Four
Have you had a 3D/4D ultrasound: No :(
Have you had any complications: None
Are you high risk: No
Are you having a boy or a girl: A girl!
Have you picked out any names yet: Yes
If so, what are they: We are naming her Allorah Jane
Any food cravings: Not really, lemonade and mustard lol
Craziest thing you have eaten: Nothing too crazy... I've been on a pretty healthy diet
Do you have any pregnant friends: Not anymore, my friend had her baby in April
Do you frequent any baby forums: Baby-gaga.com!
Have you felt any movement: Tons!! She is a wiggly little worm
Has dad felt any movement: Yep
Do you or dad talk to baby: Sometimes, it feels awkward, my mom talks to her though haha
When did you first start showing: About 61/2 months
Do you have any stretch marks: Yeah :/
How have you been sleeping: Not too bad, sometimes I wake up at 5 or 6am and can't get back to sleep for awhile though.
Have you had any really strange dreams: Yes they've all been so vivid and weird.
Have you gotten any braxton-hicks contractions: I'm not sure...
Has dad had to make any midnight snack runs: No haha
Have you made baby shower plans: My boyfriend's mom has planned it all, it's next Saturday!
Have you registered anywhere: Babies R Us, Target, and Amazon
What was the first thing bought for baby: Clothes haha
Are you going to take any birthing classes: Already did
Have you read any pregnancy or baby books: Yes I've got a pile by my bed
When is your next doctors appointment: June 29th

Birth Plans

At home or hospital: Hospital
Vaginal or C-section: Hopefully vaginal, I don't want surgery!!
Natural or medicated: Going for natural
Will you be induced: I sure hope not.
Who will be in the delivery room with you: Michael
Are you going to have a doula: No
What are a few things you will make sure to have with you: A picture of my cat lol, a pillow, maybe a little wooden back massager
Are you going to take pictures or video: Yes
Will dad cut the cord: Yes
If you are having a boy, will you circumsize: ----
Will any relatives come into town: I don't know, my grandpa might.
Are you scared: Not really, I just don't want unnecessary medical stuff done to me...

Baby's Arrival

Do you have a coming home outfit: Yes
Will you come home as soon as you can: Yes
What is the best thing about being at the hospital: Knowing they can handle an emergency
What is the worst thing about being at the hospital: They always try to do unnecessary things, and contain you to the bed.
What is the best thing about coming home: Being home...
What is the nursery theme: Pink and green, with animal prints.
Will you breastfeed or use formula: Breastfeed!
Will you co-sleep: No
Cloth diapers or regular: Regular
What can't you wait for the most: Just to see her, and hold her for the first time.

Dream

So I just woke up from my first dream about the baby, it started out I was in the hospital, I had her, and I tried to breastfeed right away. I kept having an awkward time holding her and trying to get her into the "tummy to tummy" position, and I also felt like there wasn't any milk coming out, but she was smiling for some reason. I then took her home and was still having trouble breastfeeding. I was just feeling like she must be starving!! She would only feed for a minute and I was so worried because I wasn't feeling this let down thing they talked about in my childbirth class. But she wasn't crying or upset at all. Then I kept swaddling her in really cute blankets and leaving her random places, like propped up on the very corner edge of the couch, on the floor, or on the bed surrounded by tons of pillows with my cat sniffing at her, and then going off and forgetting. Then she also kept turning into a doll when I would remember I had a baby, and go back to get her. It was frustrating me because I was crying and yelling "Wheres my REAL baby??" I kept thinking she was still at the hospital or something, I was going crazy, or being punished for leaving her like that. I also remember feeling like I hadn't even given birth, and forgot all about the delivery and labor part, although I know I had dreamed about it.

I was wondering when I was going to have one of these strange pregnancy dreams everyone was talking about... I guess dreams like that are common in pregnancy haha. It was very weird! I'm surprised I hadn't up until now. Maybe it was because I fell asleep reading the "You're Labor & Birth" book haha.

Thursday, June 16, 2011

Update!



This is a digital scrapbook page I designed for my daughter :)

I should probably update on what's been going on, since I haven't in a very long time! I am now 34 weeks (Today) Only 6 more weeks left, that's just 42 days! (Give or take a few, of course) I had been feeling excellent up until this last week, it's kicking my butt! I've been tired and she's "dropped" so I'm feeling a lot more pressure on my hips and pelvis, which is not fun, I think it was all the walking I did on Sunday, I went to the City Fair (Rose Festival) in downtown Portland. It was fun though, and I was glad I wasn't the only preggo waddling around haha. It sure seems a lot bigger in my memory when I went as a little kid though... I can't wait to take Allorah! Anway, she is doing fine, kicking and rolling around like crazy. It's so strange but also so amazing that there's a little human swimming around inside me! A little mini me! Ha ha.

Today I Photoshopped a picture of Michael and I's baby pictures together, just to see what came about. I tried those photo morphing things online but they were just too weird and highly inaccurate. So here is what I came up with haha don't laugh, or do if you want! Ha ha!



I just have a feeling she's going to look more like Michael, especially from this last ultrasound, she has his forehead! I can't wait to see her little face in person :)